eharmony success illustrated by a couple

eharmony: Here for real love

Dating is a journey with ups and downs. But all the effort is worth it when you meet someone special. So, when you decide it’s time to find that meaningful relationship, eharmony is here for you.

Let’s get started

How does eharmony work?

1. Learn about yourself

See how our process uses an in-depth Compatibility Quiz and Personality Profile so you discover more about yourself and what matters most to you in a relationship.

2. Discover Your matches

In your Match List you’ll have access to each match’s profile so you can better understand who they are and what they want. The list will be updated as new members join, so you’ll never miss an opportunity to fall in love.

3. Make a meaningful Connection

We’ve made making the first move easier than ever with our communication tools. So, if you’re not sure where to begin, try sending a smile or an icebreaker to get the conversation started.

The eharmony experience

We specialize in compatibility. See how our process reveals more about yourself and what you want in a relationship. That way you find the one thing you’ve been looking for: real love.

eharmony Matching: Where Compatibility Meets Connection

At eharmony we offer the opportunity to experience real love through our Compatibility Matching System. We give each of our members the ability to find compatibility and connection through these features:

• Our Compatibility Quiz produces a Compatibility Score that breaks down what you’re looking for in a partner based on your interests, habits, and life goals.

• A Personality Profile helps you understand how you and your matches matches connect while also allowing you to discover more about yourself.

Our mission is to create real love by connecting people based on what really matters. We believe that love is all about a shared spark. If you’re ready to experience real love for yourself – we’re ready for you.

Why eharmony is worth it

For over 20 years we’ve made it our purpose to create authentic relationships, because love is something that everyone deserves. Just ask any of the 2 million people who have met and fell in love on eharmony.

Ben and I just connect and see things the same way. eharmony put me with the perfect person.


We can’t thank eharmony enough for matching us!

John & Angela

 I can honestly say that we never would have met if it hadn’t been for eHarmony


  • Over 2 million have found love
    … could you be next?
  • 51% men /
    49% women
    Quality matches for everyone.
  • Site most likely to lead to happy relationships … the right one may be waiting for you!
  • 2.3 million messages sent weekly See who wants to talk to you!

We’re all about love, and that’s a fact.

We don’t have a type. eharmony members represent individuals of all ages and demographics. People who use eharmony are seeking meaningful relationships based on something deeper than just looks, likes, and location. They’re here for love. Just like you.

Find the membership that works for you

When it comes to finding the right person, we know it can take some time but finding real love is an investment that pays out. We have memberships that are designed to allow you to take the time you need to get to know your matches. See which one best fits your lifestyle and find out more about the cost of eharmony for your membership.

eharmony basic
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use of all communication tools: Smiles, Icebreakers & Greetings
Limited messaging

eharmony premium
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use of all communication tools: Smiles, Icebreakers & Greetings
Unlimited messaging
View unlimited photos
Video Date feature
See who’s viewed you
Distance search
Detailed Personality Profile
Dedicated customer service

How to communicate on eharmony

We know that communication is key. So, here are some of our most important features:


Take the guess work out of saying hello through the ehamormy messaging system. We provide interactive icebreakers to help start the conversation.


eharmony icebreaker screenshot


Sometimes all it takes a smile, so we’ve found a way to make that unspeakable spark go virtual.


Video Date

Say goodbye to the stress of first dates and say hello to a convenient way to date from the comfort of your home.

Video Date

If you want to dive deeper and exhaust all possibilities to improve your eharmony experience, you’ll find interesting articles in our eharmony tips category.

Find Real Love Now!


For over two decades, eharmony has been committed to providing a safe place to meet new people and start meaningful relationships. Our Trust & Safety team works hard to ensure that our members discover the most compatible matches possible in a trusted environment.

*2022 Survey of 1,300 is a Respondents from the US, UK, Canada and Australia

We’re here for you

When it comes to love, everyone has questions. That’s why our Customer Care team is here to answer any questions you may have about eharmony. The FAQ section is extensive and a great option for autonomous troubleshooting too. So let us help, because this journey is worth it.